Anyone have advice? Monster-In-Law is my grandma...

[sourland]

There is a big difference between dealing with bossy relatives and toxic ones. It sounds like your grandparents were just bossy, but from the OP's posts I think hers are toxic. The only way to deal with toxic people is distance. Lots of distance.

Cassie, I am in absolute agreement with you!

 

[nayeli]

Update? I hope you are successfully moved and in a much better situation by now!

 

[oldrooster]

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Yes take it from a guy whos family makes Churnoble look like a cake walk, GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! trust me years of therapy is not cheaper than rent, ruined lives and relationships in the future is not worth a free roof and food. BTW if your old enough to make a baby and be married your old enough to live on your own with your family.

 

[nayeli]

@ Old Rooster, I think thats sound advice mixed with some tough love!

 

[oldrooster]

@ Old Rooster, I think thats sound advice mixed with some tough love!

I was afraid of sounding mean at first but in reality sometimes even I need a kick in the pants to do right.

 

[nayeli]

I don't think its mean. I agree. I'm 20, married and we are buying our first house. If you are old enough to marry and have children you are old enough to live on your own... however if it were a healthy situation then there is no problem staying at home as long as you want assuming that whomever is contributing. More and more people my age live at home longer in order to pay for school, save up a downpayment, buy a car outright, etc.