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Yup..when we are gone, we're gone...thats it....kaput...
This. My Mom had such a hard time with this part of it. She just kept asking "Don't you WANT to believe that after we die we all end up together???" Well, sure, but just because I want to believe something doesn't make it true. That's about where she got frustrated with me and told me that I need to "think less and feel more!"
I adore my Mom, and really try to avoid conversations about religion with her for just this reason. The human brain has some real issues with conceiving of the notion that it may just cease to exist. It seems to be hardwired. I'd say the thought gives me trouble as well, thinking about it can be like getting to a door and one hand trying to open it while the other tries to swat that hand away. But, my thoughts are little firings in my brain. No brain/death = no thoughts = my not existing . It may seem depressing or scary, I admit that it is to me as well. But, there it is.
We are interesting animals, humans.
I totally agree with all of this, except for the last bit. I've never found it in the least depressing or scary (though I do have an almost insane fear of any pain while dying. Physical pain absolutely destroys me). Mark Twain sums it up best, I think:
"I was dead for millions of years before I was born and it never inconvenienced me a bit."
Yup..when we are gone, we're gone...thats it....kaput...
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This. My Mom had such a hard time with this part of it. She just kept asking "Don't you WANT to believe that after we die we all end up together???" Well, sure, but just because I want to believe something doesn't make it true. That's about where she got frustrated with me and told me that I need to "think less and feel more!"
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We are interesting animals, humans.
I totally agree with all of this, except for the last bit. I've never found it in the least depressing or scary (though I do have an almost insane fear of any pain while dying. Physical pain absolutely destroys me). Mark Twain sums it up best, I think:
"I was dead for millions of years before I was born and it never inconvenienced me a bit."