No need to be sorry Janet. lol I can say I love my Embden gander but the breed isn't for everyone. They do tend to mellow with age. But maybe it's not temperament you don't like maybe looks? they do have gorgeous blue eyes.Funny how this topic reappears every few months and the responses are pretty much the same as usual. I think it has more to do with individual goose temperament and how raised than it does a specific breed. With that said, my favorite breeds are dewlap Toulouse, Africans, and production Toulouse. My least favorite are embdens (sorry Patti).