I'm 52, when I was five I got to spend a couple of nights with some friends who had a huge farm with cows, chickens, geese, a peacock and a pony. That was it I was hooked and knew this was what I wanted. When I was about 9 we sold our house and my grandmothers and bought a place big enough she could live with us. I was hearbroken that it wasn't a farm. My father did buy me a quarter horse, which we boarded in an attempt to ease my disappointment however. He was a sweetheart!
But of course, like so many others, life had different plans for me, which was okay too. It's been a good life, filled with two beautiful daughters (and now 4 grandbabys) and some great adventures. Through the years I have developed my skills at organic gardening, even had the opportunity to have a goat at one point and just generally prepared myself, hoping one day for a little acreage to live my dream. I've always been happiest with my hands in the dirt, it's where I feel most connected to life. I like being able to provide healthy, chemical free food for my family and detest what agribusiness and animal factories are doing to our food and the suffering inflicted on these poor animals.
Now my DBF and I are looking at small farmettes up in Wisconsin to purchase so late next spring we can make the move! And of course one of the first things I intend to do is find some Chickens! Of course during our discussions he thought it was great I would be gardening, wanted to put in fruit trees, bake fresh bread, etc. But when I mentioned chickens he rolled his eyes and said " Don't expect me to take care of them and don't expect me to eat them!" Okay I can live with both, since I wouldn't have the heart to kill them. Tried raising bunnies once for meat, needless to say none of them made it to the table, I'm simply too soft (of course if things get as bad as I suspect they will down the road I'm sure I could grow a backbone and help some find their way to the freezer). But I also know he is a "sucker" for critters to and it won't be long before he is enjoying the chickens too!
Then I mentioned a peacock... you would think I said I wanted to have a teradactyl! He asked me if I knew how hard it would be to find someone to treat such an exotic animal...
of course I'll cut him some slack, he was raised in Chicago and I guess they would seem rather exotic to him. He's acutally coming around to my plans, when I first mentioned goats I got the eyeroll there too, but the other day he decided that maybe Stanley Mutt Mutt (our 120 lbs johnson american bulldog) would enjoy a goat or two (his way of agreeing without letting on he would like them too!!!)
I'm glad I found BYC, everyone here is very helpful and I've learned a lot from the various threads and got some great ideas for coops. And I can hardly focus on anything else know that my dream is so close to becoming reality!