Acccckkkk! I would abandon my house too!
Black widow or brown recluse- I don't know. All I know is it felt like someone broke my arm. Instantly. Could have been either. Our isolation gowns are folded and stacked on a dark shelf in a cabinet...no telling how long the one I put on had been there. Also, I am very allergic to wasp/bee stings: the tissue just bubbles up and dies wherever their venom goes. I figure the same for a spider bite...regardless, the experience has made me terrified of spiders.
Had a spider on my CEILING of my BEDROOM...looked up and yelled for my husband to "GET IT GET IT GET IT..."
Dumb human...grabbed his hat and whacked it and it came sailing my direction...then we couldnt find it. Well, I felt it all over me...I had a serious case of the cooties and had to get in the shower and scrub my hair... (after I danced all over the bedroom) shake out the bed sheets...laid back down, and then spotted it crawling up the wall...