Call DUcks, I envy that you had someone to show you how to do all this early in life. We have always sent the lambs to the butcher and the kids never played with the lambs. THe chickens . . . well they love playing with the chickens and often haul one into the house to visit. THey have been remarkably helpful in the plucking and bagging, just not eating; and I keep t hem away from the killing. Based on their current behavior I don't think they are ready to see that done. It's rather a complex thing to introduce this to kids that did not grow up butchering . . . . bad enough they are the only kids they know with farm animals.
My son ask me to teach him/show him, said it was time he should learn. I was shocked but agreed. He managed alright and ate the bird in soup. I think it helped that it was a rooster that would chase any of us if we came out of the house. Now, when he brought home a turkey poult and cared for it he had a little sit with it before I came out to process it and as resigned as he was when he hung his head over that bird in his lap to cry for a moment I felt bad too. He walked away for the killing and came to help with the rest. He is nearly 12. Arielle I think yours are close to his age so maybe they will come around. I'm an adult and I still have to close my heart to put blood on my hands.