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urbanutah
Chirping
Well, you are very eloquent with a pen/keyboard. Your dad fostered and encouraged an invaluable tool, a dying art really.Thanks. I guess I just learned to rely on writing rather than speaking because I had serious stuttering issues growing up. My stepdad (who much later adopted my sister and me) saw my frustration and told me that if something was important enough for me to try to say, it was important to him to know what that was. He suggested I write down thoughts that tended to exacerbate the stuttering because it seemed the more excited or upset I was the worse the stutter was. He promised that he’d read every word....and he did. And because the tension in my thoughts eased once I’d written them, we were then able to talk about it with far less stuttering over it. Now I hardly stutter at all, simply because writing taught me to slow my thoughts down. Speaking and writing are pretty similar. One requires you to slow down a bit so your mouth can keep up, the other so your fingers can keep up! Bless you, Dad!
I’m so glad you had that “innate sense” that what we are told to do really doesn’t fit the reality of raising these little gems. I hope yours continue to thrive!