brother and sister in law rant.

[Boyd]

possibly

 

[redhen]

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I think you like them...

 

[Boyd]

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I think you like them...

I love them.... oh, you mean getting smacked? Well sort of... But I love all women. All shapes and sizes. I love my wife to death, but she knows how I am. She met my lil cuz's friend and wife knew she was the one I referred to as my next x wife before I met my wife... um.. yeah.

So we had a deal, if I turned 30 before I fell in love we'd both get married. Well, found my wife about 3 years earlier (than deadline) and I married at 29 going on 30 that year lol!

 

[redhen]

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I think you like them...

I love them.... oh, you mean getting smacked? Well sort of... But I love all women. All shapes and sizes. I love my wife to death, but she knows how I am. She met my lil cuz's friend and wife knew she was the one I referred to as my next x wife before I met my wife... um.. yeah.

So we had a deal, if I turned 30 before I fell in love we'd both get married. Well, found my wife about 3 years earlier (than deadline) and I married at 29 going on 30 that year lol!

LOL..you cut it close...

 

[Boyd]

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I love them.... oh, you mean getting smacked? Well sort of... But I love all women. All shapes and sizes. I love my wife to death, but she knows how I am. She met my lil cuz's friend and wife knew she was the one I referred to as my next x wife before I met my wife... um.. yeah.

So we had a deal, if I turned 30 before I fell in love we'd both get married. Well, found my wife about 3 years earlier (than deadline) and I married at 29 going on 30 that year lol!

LOL..you cut it close...

I sure did, I almost married both of them at the same time. Only problem is I don't have a king sized bed

I'd get downgraded to the futon!

 

[redhen]

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LOL..you cut it close...

I sure did, I almost married both of them at the same time. Only problem is I don't have a king sized bed

I'd get downgraded to the futon!

 

[lovesduckies]

haha thanks for the laughs boyd

 

[Tweets]

I think you are granting this gal too much power. Obviously she knows she can get to you all and is enjoying the effect. The other thing is your brother is also to blame letting her talk and act to your parents like that and shows her he has no respect for them so why should she. Nor has he any respect for her since he is allowing her to continue the dramatics. Sadly they are so young and will until they get their acts together need help of some sort. She is to be pitied more than anything poor gal learned nothing but bad manners and disrespect, she will go no where in life. Try that behaviour in a job! Learn where your power is you have more than you think.

 

[lovesduckies]

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yup that's her thing. she controlls everyone and it makes me mad. that's why i keep telling my mom to STOP she knows she has my mom wrapped around her little finger and i guess my mom doesn't see it that way. my brother is afraid of her. everyone is. i'm not, maybe just afraid she'll sit on me and crush me. lol. but really. everyone is scared that she will take off with the babies. that's stupid. and they are weak. she's not god, she can't control everything and someone needs to put her in her place. oh she babysits for a living. how productive. she baby sits because she wants to have my neice and nephew with her, not to mention she's lazy and not worth a darn

 

[Sonoran Silkies]

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yup that's her thing. she controlls everyone and it makes me mad. that's why i keep telling my mom to STOP she knows she has my mom wrapped around her little finger and i guess my mom doesn't see it that way. my brother is afraid of her. everyone is. i'm not, maybe just afraid she'll sit on me and crush me. lol. but really. everyone is scared that she will take off with the babies. that's stupid. and they are weak. she's not god, she can't control everything and someone needs to put her in her place. oh she babysits for a living. how productive. she baby sits because she wants to have my neice and nephew with her, not to mention she's lazy and not worth a darn

Babysitting so that you can keep be a stay at home mom for your kids is not a lazy way out. It is hard work if you're doing it right. EVERYONE is worth a darn.

I get that you don't like her, but your relationship with her is your business; everyone else's relationship is THEIR business, not yours. Don't make it tougher on your folks by trying to dictate to them what and how they should behave towards her, then getting annoyed or angry when they choose something diferent. They are making the choices that they think are best. It is one thing to suggest; something else entirely to expect & require.