Yes, I agree, and should have stated just as an "issue". I feel sorry for my girl, and hate that I feel I have to do things to try to keep them from breeding...I just can't have baby birds. I never would have gotten opposite sexes, but they were a rescue. I am trying to follow some suggestions I have seen re daylight, removing certain toys, changing up cage, putting in active rooms, etc...Hoping it can help, etc...Funny though, I have not noticed the male trying to jump the girl or anything; she is the one that is being agressive toward him and vent rubbing, etc...He does have a blue cere, but I'm beginning to wonder if it really is a male...they do seem love each other and feed each other sometimes. I'm pretty sure the male is probably about 6 mos old now, judging by the iris, neither had one when I got them in August. The female still doesn't have one, according to info I've seen, she may keep the black eyes. So, I don't know if there is much age difference, and/or, he might not be ready to mate, or ? She has been throwing up food on her toy ball for about a month, then started hanging on it & vent rubbing on the perch, so, I took the ball away, and less daylight hrs, nothing to hide in or nesting material, etc.,so far. Just keep looking & trying things...If they do mate & she lays eggs, what should I do if I don't want the chicks? Freaking me out to take them out if they would be developing, etc..Suggestions? Thanks for your reply! You are right! (But, I did get a wonderful laugh about how the posts were written, eventhough, I know peeps needed help...I wasn't making fun...the writing was wonderful, I couldn't get my point across so eloquently as that !!)Sexual behavior is a part of animal behavior. Is it really a "problem"or do we, as humans, just find this behavior embarrassing? A healthy bird will pick a mate, it will pick an organic creature as a mate or an inanimate object. Unless she's hurting herself I wouldn't worry about it.