texasgal, I think your kitchen is beautiful.
I have the granite countertops and yes, they are gorgeous, however, let me share the downside of them with you.
They HAVE to be cleaned with granite cleaner frequently and polished with granite polish or they look dull(and yes, everything shows when the sun hits them).
They have to be sealed once a year with this really stinky sealer.
People say "you can cut right on them and set hot pots on them, no problem"-guess what? no way will I cut on them, I use a cutting board and I NEVER set a hot pot on them(I always use a trivet) because we spent 2 gazillion dollars on them and I am not risking ruining them.
Here's the biggie for me-if I ever want to remodel my kitchen, it will have to be done around those countertops BECAUSE we spent 2 gazillion dollars on them so they are here to stay.
Granite countertops are for RESALE VALUE!
Tell DH to be happy with your lovely countertops and your lovely home. Ya'll should be very proud.