Hang in there @birdman55 . I've been one of your followers and you have a talent raising select breed birds. I 100% understand family issues. I have had to cut ties with much of my family due to various personal issues. It's not easy to tell your so called family to take a hike, but sometimes it's for the best. People say you can't choose your family, I say "WHY NOT! I DID!" Not saying this is your solution, because your circumstances are obviously different. You have to do what is right for you and your chosen family.