Calling all teenagers

[Logar]

I'm done with this thread for awhile, bye

everyone is

 

[Somewhere_In_The_Clouds]

This is going to be my last reply on this. Abby responded so to me that means time to move on. Also I have to work today so I don't have time or brain power anyway

I am done with everyone here. There is no problem with people calling me Banana Fetish Guy but when I jokingly call someone a meanie poop eater in response to that then there is an issue? Thanks a lot everyone

Like I said before this was building up. There has been a lot of "bullying" and teasing happening on this thread. Again, I don't like name calling regardless of who does it and often I ask people to stop, just not always, I'm not responsible for my friends actions or words.
This fact this exploded may have had to do with the fact you didn't even say it to her face. It was, in a way, behind her back. I truthfully did think you two were having a normal conversation that's why I ignored, i was drawing, I was SO shocked when I translated a random message and saw that.
And as said this wasn't the first time you took it a bit far. Like calling me boring whatever you said. I don't believe I ever called you any name here, as that's not something I do. And THAT had the potential to cause something like this, be glad it did not. You need to be more a careful with your words. I couldn't care less what you choose to call me but again friendships here are really something.

You guys will be perfectly fine to keep using this thread. A lot of people won't be returning/won't for a while, so nothing will happen. I also likely won't reply to any responses to this, I just wanted to say this so you could think about it.
Hope you've all had a good day so far, I'll see you all around sometime.

 

[TesoroSena]

This is going to be my last reply on this. Abby responded so to me that means time to move on. Also I have to work today so I don't have time or brain power anyway

Like I said before this was building up. There has been a lot of "bullying" and teasing happening on this thread. Again, I don't like name calling regardless of who does it and often I ask people to stop, just not always, I'm not responsible for my friends actions or words.
This fact this exploded may have had to do with the fact you didn't even say it to her face. It was, in a way, behind her back. I truthfully did think you two were having a normal conversation that's why I ignored, i was drawing, I was SO shocked when I translated a random message and saw that.
And as said this wasn't the first time you took it a bit far. Like calling me boring whatever you said. I don't believe I ever called you any name here, as that's not something I do. And THAT had the potential to cause something like this, be glad it did not. You need to be more a careful with your words. I couldn't care less what you choose to call me but again friendships here are really something.

You guys will be perfectly fine to keep using this thread. A lot of people won't be returning/won't for a while, so nothing will happen. I also likely won't reply to any responses to this, I just wanted to say this so you could think about it.
Hope you've all had a good day so far, I'll see you all around sometime.

Wonderfully said, thank you Clouds.

 

[Logar]

This is going to be my last reply on this. Abby responded so to me that means time to move on. Also I have to work today so I don't have time or brain power anyway

Like I said before this was building up. There has been a lot of "bullying" and teasing happening on this thread. Again, I don't like name calling regardless of who does it and often I ask people to stop, just not always, I'm not responsible for my friends actions or words.
This fact this exploded may have had to do with the fact you didn't even say it to her face. It was, in a way, behind her back. I truthfully did think you two were having a normal conversation that's why I ignored, i was drawing, I was SO shocked when I translated a random message and saw that.
And as said this wasn't the first time you took it a bit far. Like calling me boring whatever you said. I don't believe I ever called you any name here, as that's not something I do. And THAT had the potential to cause something like this, be glad it did not. You need to be more a careful with your words. I couldn't care less what you choose to call me but again friendships here are really something.

You guys will be perfectly fine to keep using this thread. A lot of people won't be returning/won't for a while, so nothing will happen. I also likely won't reply to any responses to this, I just wanted to say this so you could think about it.
Hope you've all had a good day so far, I'll see you all around sometime.

That is completely fair.
I really didn't know that you didn't like name calling until you said that yesterday nor did I mean for it to be taken as talking behind someone's back. I hate people who do that. I have walked away from countless conversations because of it (as in I got up and left my friends to sit by myself). I am disgusted at myself thinking that people thought and still think that was my intention. I meant for it to be light hearted. And I don't know if it is like this in other places but in my school at least, people jokingly insult and make fun of each other to show they see you as a friend. I wasn't thinking and thought that is how others would see it as well. I know most people here don't like me and I couldn't care less about that but I want to make it clear that I never was trying to hurt anyone, I was just goofing around after being called the banana fetish guy.

 

[Somewhere_In_The_Clouds]

That is completely fair.
I really didn't know that you didn't like name calling until you said that yesterday nor did I mean for it to be taken as talking behind someone's back. I hate people who do that. I have walked away from countless conversations because of it (as in I got up and left my friends to sit by myself). I am disgusted at myself thinking that people thought and still think that was my intention. I meant for it to be light hearted. And I don't know if it is like this in other places but in my school at least, people jokingly insult and make fun of each other to show they see you as a friend. I wasn't thinking and thought that is how others would see it as well. I know most people here don't like me and I couldn't care less about that but I want to make it clear that I never was trying to hurt anyone, I was just goofing around after being called the banana fetish guy.

Well, you don't know me very well so it's understandable that you wouldn't have known. But that's something to bare in mind, not everyone is the same, agrees with, likes, approves of the same things.

We absolutely do "insult" and tease each other,  but we do it with the friends we know extremely well. We know what each other's limits are for teasing, and we'll call each other out when/if a line is crossed.
I mean I called one of my best friends here "Boring, forgettable and rude" recently
I would never say that to someone else but I know he knew I didn't mean a single word of it.

 

[Logar]

We absolutely do "insult" and tease each other,  but we do it with the friends we know extremely well. We know what each other's limits are for teasing, and we'll call each other out when/if a line is crossed.
I mean I called one of my best friends here "Boring, forgettable and rude" recently
I would never say that to someone else but I know he knew I didn't mean a single word of it.

that makes sense. In my school people do it to everyone, even if they barely know them (I know I keep bringing up my school but I really am not trying to use it as an excuse but to just hopefully provide some idea as to why). But I really should have thought about how things aren't the same everywhere and even if they were, stuff can come off way differently then they were.

I am sorry everyone. I didn't think what I said would be seen how it was but all I can do about it now is learn from my mistakes. Have a good day everyone

 

[TesoroSena]

Well, you don't know me very well so it's understandable that you wouldn't have known. But that's something to bare in mind, not everyone is the same, agrees with, likes, approves of the same things.

We absolutely do "insult" and tease each other,  but we do it with the friends we know extremely well. We know what each other's limits are for teasing, and we'll call each other out when/if a line is crossed.
I mean I called one of my best friends here "Boring, forgettable and rude" recently
I would never say that to someone else but I know he knew I didn't mean a single word of it.

I hold the absolute highest respect for you Clouds. You stuck up for what you knew was right but you werent mean about it, you cleared the air for everyone, and than forgave us. If that isn’t true Christianity I don’t know what is. I strive to be as wise and levelheaded as you are.

 

[Logar]

I hold the absolute highest respect for you Clouds. You stuck up for what you knew was right but you werent mean about it, you cleared the air for everyone, and than forgave us. If that isn’t true Christianity I don’t know what is. I strive to be as wise and levelheaded as you are.

Agree 100% couldn't have said it any better

 

[Somewhere_In_The_Clouds]

I hold the absolute highest respect for you Clouds. You stuck up for what you knew was right but you werent mean about it, you cleared the air for everyone, and than forgave us. If that isn’t true Christianity I don’t know what is. I strive to be as wise and levelheaded as you are.

Tes That means alot
I am FAR from perfect though. I'd hardly say I'm wise, and I sure as anything am not always levelheaded
But one of the huge advantages of the fact we're communicating online is that we can stop and think. We can check whether what we want to say should be said. And it's easy to "walk away" from an argument. Just put the phone down.
That's not something we really have irl.
I don't like conflict, and I feel like grudge/negative feelings toward each other just make things worse. They're not worth it, can affect us mentally and honestly hinder friendships sometimes.
One of my good friends here I had an argument with a few years ago and she didn't like me after that. Now we've cleared that up we're close friends, we understand we're different and we have different views on things. We accept that about each other.
So yes, if I can I will always try to "clear the air"

 

[notabitail]

Tes That means alot
I am FAR from perfect though. I'd hardly say I'm wise, and I sure as anything am not always levelheaded
But one of the huge advantages of the fact we're communicating online is that we can stop and think. We can check whether what we want to say should be said. And it's easy to "walk away" from an argument. Just put the phone down.
That's not something we really have irl.
I don't like conflict, and I feel like grudge/negative feelings toward each other just make things worse. They're not worth it, can affect us mentally and honestly hinder friendships sometimes.
One of my good friends here I had an argument with a few years ago and she didn't like me after that. Now we've cleared that up we're close friends, we understand we're different and we have different views on things. We accept that about each other.
So yes, if I can I will always try to "clear the air"

The hardest part of stop and think is putting away your gadget to think.