The new Priuses are indeed fugly. Mine was a 2005, and no I didn't have to put on my blue wig to get 60+ mpg.
That being said, if I were to do it again my choices would have been:
Used Toyota minivan I could pay off within a year. You can't be reposessed and thus homeless out of a car you really own.
Or if I had to go new, a Honda ..... what was that thing they were calling a dorm room on wheels? Marketed to college students, turns out middle aged moms were buying them, was that the Pilot? Paid it off as quickly as possible and had a nice stealthy live-in vehicle for when I lost everything.
I bought in 2005, I lost everything in mid-2007, if I'd gone all-out I'd have been able to pay off a big chunk of a Honda Pilot or a Toyota Matrix, and the payments would have been lower - not too hard to play street music, wash windows, collect cans for enough to make a car payment, hard but do-able. In fact little did I know I could have kept my Prius, I know a guy like 2X my size who was living in his, and the secret is you get a car cover. People can't see the condensation on the windows from you sleeping in there with a cover, and no one messes with Priuses anyway, they know Prius owners are prissy clean-car people who never leave anything worth stealing on the seats, and besides, the cars are WEIRD.
I'd suggest to anyone now to carefully weigh gas mileage, carrying capacity, cost, and the possibility that you may need to live in the dang thing, into your car purchase decision.