Food is a huge motivator for my faverolle. Grapes and mealworms are her favorites. My Fav does want to be close, between my feet (when she thinks mealworms will be delivered), on the garden swing snuggled to my hip, or even on my lap. I just can't touch her with my hands r she screams and flaps like a lunatic. This week she decided she loves my husband (he doesn't try to pet her). Every time he comes out and sits she is up on his shoulder for a long spell. I spend anywhere from 1 - 3 hours with them every day while they are out to free range the backyard.