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Gotalotofpetstoo
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I posted pictures of both eyes and what I was referring to on the EE. I guess that is what you were talking about it being, I've just never seen or paid close enough attention from that angle to notice it I suppose.Do you mean her poofy feathery beard? If so, that is a common feature of Easter Eggers, along with their feathery ear muffs. It's why I love the appearance of EEs so much, because I think their feathered beards and muffs are so adorable.
I asked about posting closeup photos of both of Ethel's eyes, because her right eye looks normal in her pictures, except for the pupil May be being overly dilated. I don't
remember seeing a photo of her right eye.
OK wow on you and your husband tending to all of your mom's chickens. I've been wondering how your mom was doing, and had meant to ask. I understand she is bored and also probably dealing with severe depression. But still, it wasn't fair for her to get more chickens for you and your husband to need to take care of, it just wasn't. I don't mean to disparage your mom; I understand the stroke was a horrible thing to happen to her. But i understand it's hard on her caregivers too, and again, I'm sorry that you now have even more on your plate.
As far as my mom putting more on us, she knows it isn't fair and she apologizes for it constantly, but at least we all live on the same property. Just a stone throw away from her so it's not like we have to travel every morning and night to take care of the chickens, and since rescuing. Ethel, I actually enjoy it and considerate a little bit of r&r for my day. And yes, she is quite depressed because even at 78 years old, her life was non-stop, always going going going. She wasn't just retired where she got up in the morning and drank her coffee and sat on the porch watching the sunset, her life was full and busy and for her to be tied down like she is, she's handling it very well. She made my older sister, her health care power of attorney because she knew that if anything bad ever happened to her and she ended up on life support, my older sister would not keep her there forever like I would, I have a tendency of not giving up on things, ie....Ethel. she's always said for many, many years that she never wants to be a burden on anybody, and she has said that so many times since her stroke. She could never be a burden on me. Never!!! I know I couldn't deal with what she's been dealing with for the 6 months that she has and probably another 6 months till she's totally on her own. But my life and my husband's life are the same. We both work full time/self employed fortunately and I work from home where my grooming shop is, so I'm always getting interrupted in the middle of my day to take care of something which does make it hard. But it's my life so I deal with it. We have 8 dogs and 8 cats, 5 goats and, We are preparing to open a boarding kennel soon so that has been a lot of stress, but I'm totally looking forward to it, the boarding kennel not distress lol.