Lots of no-nonsense advice here. I have had my own chickens for six years, but have been around them on my grandfather's farm since I was a small child (I just turned 55). If someone wants chickens as pets, I don't fault them for it and don't want them put off by the gruffness of some OTs. Hopefully, they can take what they need from this thread and let the rest slide off their backs.
Mine do get names for ease of ID ("DH, go get Ida" is easier than "go get the BR with the solid black feather on her chest") and most of them do become treasured pets. No, no diapers here. No contagious disease will be treated, either, no matter how attached I am. Tough stance, sure, but can't get caught up in treating stuff like that. No breeds that need pampering can be here. They either are overall healthy or they aren't.
Some OTs do have odd ideas, no matter how many years they've kept chickens.
My own 90 yr old dad is one and he was raised on the aforementioned farm. He still tells me that hens are "happier" with roosters and will lay better.
By the way, a crop bra is for pendulous crop, not for bare chests getting cold-it has a medical use to prevent crop stasis in birds prone to crop issues. I just lost another blue Orp hen to that, so wondered if that could have saved her. Probably wouldn't have done it anyway. It's one reason I will not be raising the BBS Orps any longer.
I don't worm regularly, never have. I have done it a few times since I have multiple groups who don't get to free range each and every day. I want to go back to the one big group who can get out all day, most every day again, though. Penned birds need it much more than free rangers.