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That is so funny!! and adorable!
DH and I raised three sons, too. During their childhood the hand of learning was applied to the seat of knowledge when they needed it. They all grew up to be respectful, respectable young men. I, too, started when they were young. I would tell them that "I'm the mama and I don't care how big you get, if I have to stand on a chair to smack you upside the head, I'll do it!" When my middle son was 14, he had a bunch of friend over, (they were all over 6' tall except my son who never made it past 5'9") and I made a comment to them about behaving, or else. One of them said, "Yep, you're little on the outside, but big on the inside."I am not tiny...that's the bad part! These guys are just so huge! You can see now why I needed to start while they were young with the whips and chairs...I knew one day they would tower over me and I would have to have earned some level of respect by then. Their birth wts? 8lbs 11 oz., 10 lbs, 8 lbs.15 oz. Yeah...I throw big calves. Wide hips and all. I think Al would definitely keep me in his breeding project.
I've been feeding these guys with a grain shovel all these years and the smallest one can out eat the other two any day of the week and twice on Sundays! NOW you can see why I have had to be so frugal in my chicken husbandry, making every cent count and processing all the extras. Try feeding these three bottle calves on a single, scraggly income and you'll see why I grow my own foods.![]()
Probably why my cull hens are so fat....can't seem to stop overfeeding things now.![]()
DH and I raised three sons, too. During their childhood the hand of learning was applied to the seat of knowledge when they needed it. They all grew up to be respectful, respectable young men. I, too, started when they were young. I would tell them that "I'm the mama and I don't care how big you get, if I have to stand on a chair to smack you upside the head, I'll do it!" When my middle son was 14, he had a bunch of friend over, (they were all over 6' tall except my son who never made it past 5'9") and I made a comment to them about behaving, or else. One of them said, "Yep, you're little on the outside, but big on the inside."
My youngest son works part time at the school where I work - he works with special-needs kids and is a PCA for another special-needs child after school) and he hugs me every day at the end of our work day. Right there in school in front of our coworkers. I love it. Yeah, I'm a proud mama, and I'll admit it. When my boys were teenagers, I wished I could get a huge, walk-in cooler and get them each their own side of beef so they could just go gnaw on that every two hours when they were hungry.
IMO this last few lines should be mandatory on all cards given at baby showers/pet purchases lol
YES! And they would STILL open it ten times each evening and look, then turn around and say, "There's nothin' to eat in this house!" You are a good mama, it is plain to see.![]()
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When my oldest had his 16th birthday party there were several boys his age and a few younger ones, my other sons included. I beat them all in arm wrestling except the last one...and my arm was plumb wore out by then! And this was half the second string football team....you can bet those boys behaved.A single mom has to have something to stand on when raising boys without the help of a father figure, so discipline has to be consistent and make an impression the first time.![]()
Kids love boundaries and they love and respect a parent in whom they can count on to be the same every day and consistent in enforcing the rules. It makes them feel secure while growing up and they have some parenting skills of their own when they get their own families. I've found that animals are the same way...they crave boundaries and someone who can tell them where those boundaries are. Makes them feel secure too.