Roxannemc, I am sorry you haven't found this thread particularly helpful and feel targeted by some of the joking on here. I am a relative newbie, having only had my chickens for three years. We raised them when I was a kid, and even though they were mainly my responsibility, I did what my Dad told me to do - so there has been a lot to learn this time around. I don't take the joking and the opinions I don't agree with as a personal attack or find them offensive. When I have asked a question, it has been because I have done some research and either can't find the answer, or I would like an answer from someone who has been there and done that if I see conflicting answers. I have gotten some very good advice, but like anything else, it is up to me to take what is useful to me and discard the rest.
I do not feel that any of the OT's on this thread would intentionally try to make someone feel stupid for asking a question, but there are questions that I see asked multiple times a day, where a simple search would give answers much quicker than posting a "QUICK - I NEED HELP NOW!!!' post. Just as you may be offended by the blunt advice or joking on this thread, it gets tiresome to see the same person post on five different threads and complain about how they're not getting help quick enough, or they didn't like the answer they got so they want someone else to respond.
Personally, I don't care if someone has a house chicken that wears a diaper and watches TV with them. I have chickens as livestock. This is one of the few threads I follow. I have made some mistakes but am learning better husbandry here. I like that the OT's here take the time to post in this thread. I get their sense of humor. I enjoy the way they say what they mean, without having to be PC here. You may think they're bashing newbies, but if you look around, they have also posted a lot of replies to a lot of newbie questions. Their advice doesn't always have the touchy-feely, hold your hand and comfort you tone, but it's based on their experience and knowledge.
I hope you are enjoying your chickens! I know that mine have become an enjoyable pastime and a great conversation-starter. I'm the 'chicken lady' in my neighborhood, and I love it.
I've even got a couple neighbors who will be getting chickens from me when they're ready, and I'll pass on the knowledge that's been shared here with me to them.