I don't think that's the case at all. There are often differing opinions, we all have different experiences and just try to share what we know or what has worked for us in similar situations. The vast majority of people here are supportive and kind. We don't all have to agree with everything everyone says in order to help. The more information someone has, that is asking for help, the more informed decisions they can make. I certainly am passing no judgement at all. Sincerely.(no matter the little messages I sense floating around about me, sixth sense at work... new members of flocks often face hen pecking).