I developed a passion for good food early. I worked at a couple of chain restaurants and a couple of pizza places and learned how not to make food, but learned the tools of the trade. Mostly I got tired of eating expensive mediocre meals in restaurants and when I said I could make it better than THAT, DH took me up on it. I am glad he did, because after a few major flops, the successes started coming.
With success comes confidence. That first Thanksgiving Dinner I cooked for my in-laws was one of the most stressful days of my life. But now I do Thanksgiving Dinner for 20+ with one or two of our turkeys, and a table full of sides, and it's no sweat now. This is Thanksgiving Dinner #29. I don't even look at the cookbook anymore for most of the dishes.
The turning point was the day I realized I could read a recipe and taste the seasonings in my head so I could tweak them to my tastes without making it "wrong" first.