Uh Oh, I feel a motherly thought coming on. LOL.....
Here goes.
First congrats on the impending marriage. Next to my relationship with God, my relationship with my husband is the most treasured.
Second, congrats on a job...Many have lost one and have been looking for months.
Third, you never know the amount of folks a person is supporting. Our family of 2 supports 2 more family adults who are unable to work and not government or otherwise supported.
So stay in the gratitude zone...It's a nice place to be. I often go to showers and cannot give big gifts...Full time farmers with no money just much labor to do. But my wishes and prayers count.....
You know in about 20 years of the marriage, you'll never never remember who gave you what at the wedding, but most hopefully in 20 years you'll smile at your beloved and still be looking at your best friends.
Best wishes and have a blessed day.