I have to get going here, they are implanting a heart monitor that can stay in up to 3 years. It's a very minor thing but it will be good to have so we can figure out if there is anything going on with it. My aunt died at 53 with these exact symptoms, except she actually passed out while I just lay down quickly when I feel like I'm going to. I would have made a great Victorian. With the hand to the forehead everytime DH said something I didn't like, I could just faint away. Ha! Just kidding.
Danz, I know it's tough not to take on your friend's troubles, but the thing is your body is just as fragile as hers and the two of you need to tell those kids if they can't even make the wedding happen, then they certainly don't need to be married. I'm a tough old f*&t. I had to plan and pay for my own and it didn't kill me to hear it. My mother told me "Give me the time and place and I'll be there, otherwise don't make me think about it." Hurt at the time but reality was she wasn't well enough to handle it and I was an awful kid. Also, I don't like to see you being taken advantage of and those kids need a reality check. You want me to call them for you guys?
tatinatimom, LOL! Thanks for the vote of confidence, I think we're on the right track!