Love it, Ivy!!
"Gopher, Everett?" Yep, we still use lines from that movie, too, or sometimes take-offs. Not everyone 'got it' when the DH told people he'd been L-A-I-D-O-F-T. I wish your boys the best of luck! Sometimes it's very difficult for kids with so many interest and abilities to decide which way to go. I'm so sorry about your daughter. That's just heartbreaking.
All three of my kids were identified as gifted early on, and each is so different from the others!! My eldest got involved in drugs and alcohol very early, and is currently in the hospital with problems resulting from alcohol abuse. He got through high school, but dropped out of college, and can't keep steady employment. It's a sad waste of a good mind, but I keep praying for a miracle.
My daughter is an architectural engineer (KU), currently doing electrical engineering design, working too many hours, and telling me that she and her new husband don't plan on having kids. We'll see. She's only 24. They certainly treat their dog and cat like children!!
My youngest is still at home, and may, in the next year or so, Lord willing, graduate from WSU. He'll be 22 in January, but he started college at 16! He has WAY more hours than necessary, just not in all the particular courses for any given degree. He is majoring in mathematics, has a good bit of chemistry, and has taken a whole lot of music (vocal, theory, etc.). He is actually giving me voice lessons, and is darn good at it! We perform together in a Celtic band (Knocknasheega- yes, there's a website, but it's kinda lame), which is fun, mostly. I've certainly grown close to him, and really enjoy his company. He, too, is struggling with what sort of career to pursue. He's enjoying the chicken adventure almost as much as I am! He works at the Spice Merchant, and is a phenomenal chef/food scientist, so he is very excited about the exceptional eggs the girls are producing.
AAKKK Too long-winded myself!