I know the feeling! I've never worked with my husband to build anything, and always found myself trying to make alterations or interrupt him from how he thinks it needs to be. He's plenty handy and has all the tools, but he doesn't have a lick of chicken sense.
For example, I came home from work to find a run for a Giraffe. The thing was 10 ft tall! I was like, are we getting peacocks or ostrich? He was like.. What's wrong with it? I was like.. Babe, chickens are only <---------> this tall, the only height we need is for humans so we can get inside to clean.
So he shorted it down to 6'4 and angled the back of it down in case I ever wanted to put a roof on it. Turns out, I do want a roof on it because it's decided to rain every day for the last 2 months and the sand in the run stinks. LOL
We started building for ducks... good thing I was there! I wanted to divide the coop, easy, right? He was trying to over complicate it and build it as if a 2500 angry bull had to live inside. So we got that done.
Started the run, and I made some changes to how the first one was. He was like... "Your design is going to look better, I have to rebuild the other one"
"Shut up and keep stapling" (we started the day much sweeter to each other, but about 4 hours in....)
I'm surprised we didn't kill each other.
He made some other comment about how I should be a structural engineer, because I have awesome, well thought out, and seemingly perfect ideas. All the way up until the practical application of it. What?!? At first I thought it was a compliment and realized it wasn't, not at all.
It now has 4 sides and a door cutout. Need to build and install the door, frame out the run for the pop door, cut a hole in the coop, frame it out, and get wire on the roof.
Day two went much better. We'll be able to work well together yet!
Then the rabbit hutch and play area needs built. Ugh. I did teach myself to use the miter saw though to alter the temporary hutch. I was so proud of myself! I will master these tools yet!