my parents retired to arkansas 25 yrs ago and now they are in their late 70's no family around we are all calif, ind and ny..they took dad to the hospital yesterday afternoon.. he had fallen and could not get up.. to weak.. turns out he has congestive heart failure.. i don't imagine he will last very long and i am ok with that. he has had lung disease for several years and has worn his oxygen tank for a couple of yrs now.. it is mom i am worried about. she is 77 and down there all alone . we are able to fly down but she doesn't want to leave the area after he passes. i need prayers to help her decide she would be better off here.. yes she hates the snow she used to live here.. but she has 2 of her kids here and several great grand kids.. but she has her church and friends there.. what to do?????? is she better off there or here? i know she can't keep up with all the things involved in keeping a house and yard.. ugh i am sooooo torn...please help me find peace with whatever she chooses.. thank you all my byc friends..