blbnker
In the Brooder
- Sep 17, 2015
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I'm back!! It really blows my mind that there are so many of us going through this! My son and his GF had gotten back together and moved in together. Now he has moved out to his own place and is "seeing" someone else. His ex has some mental illness (bipolar) and I know she was very hard to live with and he was not happy. However, for some crazy reason I love like my own daughter and i can't just walk away from her. She is frantic that she will lose me and my husband but so angry at my son and she wants us to be angry too. I will never disown or stop loving my son and we talk frequently. He is OK with us helping her during this time but I am so stressed out. In the fall I went to therapy and am still on anti-depressants, which I think helps but I can feel the anxiety building. I really have no interest in meeting this new girl and I feel bad for that and am hoping I can heal my heart enough to at least give her a chance.
The good thing is that my son seems happy and more relaxed than I have seen him in a while. i really don't think they should be together but i just want them both to be happy. She is making him out to be the bad guy and that bothers me but I just listen and try to just let her vent. i want her to meet someone else and be happy.
I know I am rambling but it feels good!!!!! Thanks again for listening. Maybe we should charter a cruise and all get together.
The good thing is that my son seems happy and more relaxed than I have seen him in a while. i really don't think they should be together but i just want them both to be happy. She is making him out to be the bad guy and that bothers me but I just listen and try to just let her vent. i want her to meet someone else and be happy.
I know I am rambling but it feels good!!!!! Thanks again for listening. Maybe we should charter a cruise and all get together.