Daughter broke up with boyfriend and I'm the one depressed!

[feelinglost]

I don't know what my problem is. I really thought that they would get married and then it's over just like that and now I worry about who my daughter will pick. I got along with this boy so well and now he asked me today if he could still come around our family after he moves on and I was not ready to hear him say that he moved on already. I said yes of course he could but I started crying imediately. He said he has a friend that might turn into something. I couldn't believe just a few weeks ago he was saying he didn't know how he could go on without her and now he is just ready to move on and never speak to my daughter again..

 

[Flock Master64]

That's rough, I'm not sure what to tell you except you should pray about it and ask for Gods advice. He will always help you

 

[connie1966]

It's bulllshit sorry he's playing with your head he just wants you to tell your daughter trust me on this he wants to make her jealous he's hurt he's desperate

 

[feelinglost]

You think so Connie. I see some things that I'm didn't see as much when they were together he isn't putting forth much effort in some things. I feel bad for him because of all he has gone through. I see now that it was for the best as hard as I hate that. My daughter is a strong willed girl who works hard for what she has and is on her own and paying her own way through college and is very talented in sports and music. I do want to help him in what ever I can.

 

[Flock Master64]

Me and my best friend got to talk from 12:30 at night to almost 3 in the morning, it made my day

 

[feelinglost]

That's great!

 

[connie1966]

Yes I think so 99.9% sure! Lol if your daughter asks you to back off though you should , you can't allow him in your life if she wants to move on , you need to tread lightly avoid mentioning your daughter , I wanted him in my life so badly I still do but I see now why it can't happen for everyone's sake

 

[feelinglost]

Connie, his dad called me yesterday and asked if I could help him. He said his life completely changed when he was with my daughter. He is really stuggling in school. He says he is over her but if he was would he be stuggling this bad. He is in the environment that they were in together. My daughter isn't. He has to face everyone and people still ask him about her. I know it is causing more stress for me. I just want him to succeed in life. I really care for him like my own son. He doesn't have a mom to care for him...

 

[connie1966]

Oh I get it trust me! And no he's far from over her! My daughters x still isn't three years later even though he has said he was in the past , I just think having you will keep reminding him you know

 

[feelinglost]

Yes I understand that. I just know I know his mom let him down and I told him I would never do that and that I would be there to help him in any way I can. He also attends our church...