Daughter broke up with boyfriend and I'm the one depressed!

[connie1966]

Awww I know how you feel trust me!! I dreamt my x son in law had a new girlfriend I was telling him I could t handle it it felt awful but they do deserve girls who will love and appreciate them , but trust me your love for him and your loss and hurt is clouding your judgment toward your daughter you need to calm down and think before you talk or you will push her away trust me on this

 

[feelinglost]

I know I really don't want to see him with someone but I know he deserves someone better then my daughter right now. My dream would be she would realize that was the biggest mistake in her life and beg him to take her back and she adore him like she should have. I have said some pretty mean things but at this time I feel she deserves it. We were to go see her tomorrow and I don't think I can even see her so doubt I am going. I don't know what she was thinking and how she could ever treat him the way she did. Then she hid it for months and he found out and then he was still willing to try to make it work but she was being so mean she didn't want it to work. I am such a mess after finally doing a little better and thinking I am going to make it through this. At this time I don't know if I will. I thought I cried a lot before I found this out... I have not stopped and I was in public and tears just kept coming... I had to just go home and been in bed since.

 

[Flock Master64]

That's terrible

 

[connie1966]

Sad all around for everybody you have a long way to go before you get passed this , I dreamt of him and I talk to him like when I'm alone like where are you bro or I miss you or i love you he's like a peice of the puzzle that's missing it doesn't make sense to me even after three years he belongs with us he's family I just don't get it.. Try to relax like I told you before you are only hurting yourself they will both move on you have to take care of yourself

 

[feelinglost]

Thanks Connie, I feel he is my missing kid too. Like he is the boy I always wanted for a kid. He is well liked and so respectful. He cares about girls the way I hope my own son will. I just want to be there to help him in life. Be the grandma to his kids someday. I would do anything for him to help him. The bad thing is I would pack my daughters things and move him right into our home. He appreciates things more and now I get why he can't talk to her. And here to think I thought I didn't know he could be like that and it's my daughter that I didn't know... I have only went a day without talking to him and that killed me. We had a good talk yesterday until I found out about what happened and then it was so hard I didn't even know what to say and here he was the one trying to keep me calm and saying she is your daughter and saying I can't pick him over her...

 

[Flock Master64]

Me and my best friend got to hang out every night this week, so there is some good news

 

[connie1966]

Cool flock master!

 

[connie1966]

Oh my god it's crazy my daughters ex said the same thing that's why he stayed away He knew I would take his side over her and he didn't want that

 

[Flock Master64]

Said what?

 

[connie1966]

That he didn't want me to go against my daughter because of him