dont ya love the docs. We got lucky with our son, he was preemie had a heart condtion and then RSV. At five years old he is still at the 3-year old stage, but atleast he is doing fine and the heart hs healed itself. Was your husband in front of the board or is he in school?
Is your son on the exeptional family member list? 
My husband always gets to pick where he wants to go and we end up within 100miles of it. We want leesburg Fl we get Lake Wales(and later Leesburg) we want Toledo or Cleveland , we get Youngstown...We will be stayin there a few years and hopefully in 5-6 years we are going back to Ft Knox.
Patrick AFB should be awesome for your son, its warm, you have the sea air, close to Orlando(and all the parks and great hospitals)
I remember how frustrated George was when he blew the one test in BNCOC, he skipped one question but didnt skip on the area on the answer sheet, so he had 29 wrong in a row. they let him redo the test the next day.
How many duty stations are you by now? I am on number 6 since we know each other, but my hubby has a few more
We have Schweinfurt, Knox, Lake Wales fl 2x, Leesburg fl and now Y-town.