We're 19yrs into a never-ending homesteading project. Don't ever believe you'll be 'done'! Because there's always something to do, somewhere.
Suggestions?
- Rent a tool once. If you need it again, buy it.
- plant orchard trees NOW because by the time you'll 'get' to them, it's 12yrs into the project, the kids are teens and eat you out of house and home!
- work on indoor projects during the cold seasons; the outdoor projects in the warmer seasons; basement projects in the hot seasons. Trust me. We finally got a/c 5yrs into the project.....
- Always, ALWAYS listen to your spouse. There's nothing stronger to harm a marriage than a never-ending, budget-sucking, money-pit called home. Doesn't mean you do what spouse says....but LISTEN! And compromise when needed.
- Vacations are necessary for sanity! Don't have to blow a wad to enjoy a weekend off here and there - just a walk around a local forest preserve can preserve a lot more than a 'lost' weekend. Nope, that's called life!
- Recognize this is a team project - sometimes working together, sometimes focusing on separate projects....but always a team effort to turn this place into home.
- Create a sanctuary space - one that's "finished" and "done" and doesn't contain all the tools and messes associated with home remuddling.
- Create a 'work' zone. That's the room which holds all the 'stuff' which *should* go into the room you're working on but cannot because you're working on this other space! This minimizes moving your stuff constantly. So, if you're working in a bathroom - the sink, the tub, the cabinetry, the mirror, the paint, the tile - all is temporarily housed together in *this* other room while you're working on flooring, plumbing, electrical, drywall, etc. It keeps stuff needed in the same spot so you don't loose the matching faucet that's *somewhere* in the house! BTDT. And then you don't blow MORE cash on purchasing a replacement (that doesn't match) just to find the original one three years later! BTDT.
- Lastly, learn to laugh - at yourself, at your spouse, at the house, at the silliness of it all. Eat pizza covered in drywall dust and see who can make the best grease marks on their grubby, drywall dust covered clothes! Enjoy the time together - and it will be your home.