Hi, I have an almost three month old silkie that I'm looking to have sexed to know for sure what it's gender. I'm prepared to use iQ bird but I'd really prefer not to. Is there an alternative option to get them sexed where I don't have to do it myself? One it would hurt me to see the baby in pain and two, she/he can be pretty panicky. Does anyone have advice on how to do the blood testing process? What is effective and how can I keep him/her calm enough. Thank you so much.