Wow! Really prefer animals then humans. They are at least honest with out motives. Years and years ago an older gentleman neighbor who loved his dog told me:"At least when Suzy wagged her tail, He knew she ment it."
Humans can be really mean and hurtful and I guess I am one of those who wears her feelings on her wrist. To me to be an animal person you have to be a caregiver type anyway. I did not have any kids got in to pure bred dogs and did the dog game for about 20 years, Now I go to shows just to remember why I know longer show. The poor dogs and if you got a good one beware they will try to destroy the competition. Never have i been around so many cut throught people in my life. I worked in search and rescue also,,One of the sayings:" a little antifreeze will take care of that..." So My search dog was a rottie female(loving temp.) and when I went to train I would have to take my boy cattle dog to protect her while i was playing victom.

Now my dogs are top Quality couch potatoes. I also have grey in my hair never in my life have I ever colored it, its long I don't like to see roots.... So un-natural....I am not fake and what you see is what you get. Actually thats a sign of self confidence. You are better off with out that one, I feel for you,I know it hurts. She was using you to get to your husband. One rule I don't have any single friends,theres really not a lot in common. I also don't like hang arounds. Society is going down hill. The young people today in general have no morals/Jesus. We are probably about 3 generations in to no JESUS. I was raised a Catholic and now a christian. Just remember God puts you threw things for a reason. Its not so much whats been done to you its how you handle it. Don't people know Gods sees all...Just think about the fall of Rome and our society now a days seems similar.