While I applaud your attempt to raise your children as kids used to be, I would feel remiss if I didn't point out two salient facts;
First, there is a price to be paid for being different. I learned this back in the late 70's when I decided I wanted to have long hair and a beard. Since I was in my late 30's at that time, I made this decision as an adult Knowing full well that jobs would be harder to find, I would be treated differently and some people would make fun of me for being "different". My point is that I made this decision for myself with the knowledge that there was that "price to be paid".
The second is the fact that the world is not what we wish it to be, but what it is. This is the world that your children will have to live in. Not ours, but theirs.
The question that you must ask yourself is, "Is it fair for me to force my children into a mold that no longer fits today's society?" I'm not suggesting that it is a better mold, just that it is definitely different. After all, long after you and I are gone they will have to live in the world as it is. It's one thing to make your children do without for monetary reasons. It's another to do without for the sake of doing without. Are you willing to have them remembered 30 years from now as the weird kids who didn't have a Play Station?
I have a friend who I think the world and all of who doesn't come to my home because I don't air condition. I had another, many years ago who, when he came to visit would become visibly nervous after about 15 minutes. He was so "hooked" on TV that he wasn't comfortable without one. The point here is that instead of teaching your children to socialize you may be making them semi-outcasts within their peer group. Society is not kind to those who don't fit in.
Food for thought.
First, there is a price to be paid for being different. I learned this back in the late 70's when I decided I wanted to have long hair and a beard. Since I was in my late 30's at that time, I made this decision as an adult Knowing full well that jobs would be harder to find, I would be treated differently and some people would make fun of me for being "different". My point is that I made this decision for myself with the knowledge that there was that "price to be paid".
The second is the fact that the world is not what we wish it to be, but what it is. This is the world that your children will have to live in. Not ours, but theirs.
The question that you must ask yourself is, "Is it fair for me to force my children into a mold that no longer fits today's society?" I'm not suggesting that it is a better mold, just that it is definitely different. After all, long after you and I are gone they will have to live in the world as it is. It's one thing to make your children do without for monetary reasons. It's another to do without for the sake of doing without. Are you willing to have them remembered 30 years from now as the weird kids who didn't have a Play Station?
I have a friend who I think the world and all of who doesn't come to my home because I don't air condition. I had another, many years ago who, when he came to visit would become visibly nervous after about 15 minutes. He was so "hooked" on TV that he wasn't comfortable without one. The point here is that instead of teaching your children to socialize you may be making them semi-outcasts within their peer group. Society is not kind to those who don't fit in.
Food for thought.