No need to be offended, I buy meat at the grocery store too, but is it raised humanely? Most likely not, but that should be acknowledged. If anything I've learned the world is full of hypocrisy, myself included; it's just part of life.
I don’t think it’s necessarily hypocritical to buy meat from a grocer if that’s your best option. We all do what we must to provide for ourselves and our families.
That said, more people than likely know it could provide their families with homegrown meat. No room/freedom to raise chickens? Even with a tiny postage stamp of a yard, Coturnix quail are your friends... Er... your doable poultry option. Don’t want an exclusive poultry diet? Add meat rabbits. Of course there are many people for whom even this... or even a small vegetable garden isn’t an option. I wouldn’t dare judge anyone, let alone such a person as this, for eating what is available and affordable.
This has been my first year raising pastured poultry (chickens and turkeys). The raising is easy; the killing is really tough, but I’m a big girl. Humankind’s best diet is omnivorous and I’m not going to stop eating meat. I’m just not. I want to be honest about this and for me, that means raising my own meat animals since I’m in a position to do so. I’m not ashamed of it, nor proud. I’m only doing what seems right to me.
I buy beef from my cousin (until I’m able to harvest calves from my three heifers). That too will be hard—however as I’m not strong enough to butcher such a large animal, that will thankfully be done at a professional shop. Killing/processing is hard not because the animals are pets (they’re not), but it’s hard because I don’t like—in fact I very much dislike—killing a living being.
The turkeys especially are such a joy, just to watch. BUT I have 30 of them and a little over half are males. No I don’t look forward to processing day. I dread it in fact, but it’s part of the deal. If I hadn’t ordered them, most of these birds would never have been hatched. If I had no desire to grow out my own meat birds and keep my own layers, they wouldn’t have even gotten a chance to enjoy life for the 8-10 weeks or six months or several years they have been given. If livestock animals were kept only as pets or as specimens for zoo-goers, there would be very few that even made it so far as conception.
Eating other life is necessary to life. NO LIFE CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT EATING OTHER LIFE. Think about it. We eat life. So do cattle and birds and yes, even vegetables, grains, seeds, fruits, fungi... If it’s never been alive then it’s not edible. And if it is or has ever been alive, then it lived by eating other life forms. This is what we are... this is what we must do or we die, and within a fairly short period of time.