Funny if it wasn't so sad. It's bad enough to be vegan/vegetarian, but then to not even want to participate in the process. I guess to each his own, but I don't know how I would live without the "stuff" outside. If I get hungry I go out to the apple tree or blueberry bush or garden and see what's ripe (or even almost ripe) and get a snack. When the kids ask "What's to eat?" and the answer is, "I don't know. Go see what's ripe," I think you're doing it right.
I pretty much raised my kids the same way, only it was in Miami so it was tomatoes, beans, etc. When just toddlers, I had them help me plant beans; I'd make a hole and they'd stick the seed in it. Later, I found out the reason I wasn't getting as many beans as I thought I should was because the kids were eating them raw right in the garden. So, they're now thrilled that mom has moved to the mountains and has her own chickens, apples, blueberries, etc. When my son visits from Atlanta, he "snacks" in the yard, just like your kids do. It's his favorite place to food shop. My daughter is a photographer and grew up looking at my Gourmet magazines, so now she takes photos of foods all over the world. Both kids have the healthiest diets I've ever seen and food plays an important part in their lives.
In my house, activities with the kids centered around food; growing it, picking it, preserving it, planning how to use it, cooking it, and reading about it. Today, my younger friends' activities with their kids center around entertainment: sports, movies, games, computers, theme parks, vacations, etc. Food is an afterthought, bought as heavily processed by factories, pre-prepared by the grocery store, or picked up on the fly from fast-food chains; anything to stop the hunger pangs.
I wonder how this is all going to pan out when their kids are grown?
You go, girl!!! Wish more moms today shared your attitude about food.