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Lovely photography!Welcome aboard!Awesome thread! Between this one and the original, I might be ready to incubate my own by the time I finish reading. XD
The top is a serama, the bottom is a quail. Feisty little buggers!@dan26552 keets are so cute! but they grow up to be so ugly![]()
@vasher what did yo uhatch? is it serama? very cute!
I wouldn't have consented to the c-section, but the doctor told me he wouldn't call the nicu to save my babies if I didn't sign the paperwork. baby A was head down and coming out - there was no medical reason to DO a c-section other than he wouldn't "let twins be born naturally." as a rule.
Had I been at any other hospital, I could have refused the c-section and they'd have saved my babies. But I was in a border hospital and the nicu team had to be flown in, and at 24 weeks, he could justify it by saying he thought they were younger and not viable.

Every other doctor, said they'd have let the babies be born vaginally, because of the circumstances. He broke my water at 21 weeks, on accident. So baby A came out - but they MIGHT have been able to buy baby B, more time, had they been able to stop my labor after baby A came out.![]()
That makes the doctor sound evil which seems pretty unlikely. Vaginal delivery is just extremely hard on very prem babies and they just don't make it out alive. That is why the do c-section.
People LOVE to go on and on about how bad doctors are like they don't care, are incompetent or want to make you suffer. But seriously, but if you think about it they are generally not stupid, and does anyone believe that they would be doing their chosen career if they just wanted to make people's lives miserable? It is more than just a job for most. They sacrifice a lot.
And when people whine at how doctors "let" their 24 weeker die - you have to think this infant is only half the gestitational age it should be. It is a miracle that it breathes at all. The medical team is spending literally millions of getting these infants viable. Do they really not care if the kid lives or dies?
People expect modern medicine to give them what get want be it plastic surgery, organ transplantation or whatever, and when it done not turn out as perfect as imagined, or the body just can't "do it " it becomes someone's else's fault. People need to take some responsibility for their choices.
Sorry about the rant but you hear this EVERYWHERE.
this was not meant to be focused on your case as everyone is different and I am truly saddened by your loss. I do know what it is like.