I do a lot of things, that i'm sure people wouldn't agree with. My husband spoils me, and I make sure to always have his back, and that includes things like greeting him so he knows we missed him while he was gone and value his hard work. He also has a semi-dangerous job and there's always a risk he could die, whether it's from a bullet, or a snake bite, you know?
I always felt that being a feminist meant the right to CHOOSE how we, as women, wanted to live. What I normally here, is how "women who cater to their husbands" set back the movement...
But then again, my mother in law live through that era, and she routinely tells me in a semi-resentful tone, how her husband NEVER changed diapers, and that it wasn't expected. She was truly shocked, that my husband plays with the kids, changes diapers, helps with the housework and schoolwork, etc.
We don't have "male and female" chores here, everyone does a little bit of everything, you know?
People do what they are good at and everyone pitches in to help.
I did not - I went there, and they had no adoptable cats, I drove 2+ hours too.
All the rescue shelters that have animals in foster, I haven't been able to get ahold of anyone - and the one rescue up by Fire ant eat, they stopped talking to me when they found out I had to travel 6 hours to pick up a kitten.