Funny, you talking about getting a rooster from somewhere else and them being raised different than you raise yours. I'm having the same kind of situation, only opposite behavior. I got a 8ish month old Ameraucana cockerel, and he's just a little too comfortable being around me, for my comfort! I've also raised lots of roosters, and prefer them to keep a respectful distance from me. I don't handle birds, etc and my roosters usually stay a good 5+ feet away from me. This new guy is pretty happy being about 2 feet away from me, and it kinda freaks me out! He's never, ever once made ANY smallest sign of aggression at all, but it still makes me not pleased to have him so close. I know, a problem others wish they had, right? And I'm complaining about it....
Hope your hand is good, be sure it's cleansed well and keep a good eye on it. And enjoy your dinner!
I'm with donrae on this one. I'll pet hens, but I never tame roosters. I want them to always know that I am so far above their pecking order that they shouldn't even try. I've heard so many sad stories of people that hand-raised roosters only to have them turn on them as soon as they hit sexual maturity. So many behaviors that people see as "friendly" are really early aggression, like the cockerel being the "friendliest" bird and running right up to the human, when really it's the cockerel aggressively getting the grooming that he wants. Then the human grooms (pets) the cockerel, and grooming is a sign of submission from hens. After that the human lets the cockerel on their shoulder, giving him the highest perch... and then the human wonders why the rooster attacks them, when in the rooster's mind the human has told him over and over that he's the alpha, and he's just reminding them who's boss. Roosters don't attack out of the blue, there are little testing behaviors that the human maybe missed, so the rooster escalates.
Basically I just ignore cockerels. I don't try to pet them like I do pullets. When they are adults, they are comfortable with me walking next to them in the pasture or the hen house and run over for treats when they see me, but definitely would never come up for cuddles. They'll get within a couple of feet of me, but will move away if I move towards them. That's about perfect rooster behavior in my book.