Ex-family and new family...

[Chickenmaven]

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Bettacreek: your certainty about the "rightness" of this relationship gave me a chill. My mother married (and divorced) three men. She only knew each of them a matter of months before getting hitched. She was finally able to be in a longterm relationship AFTER she spent a quanity of time alone, dealing with her own issues. I do wish you well, but there is cetainly alot to be said in favor of really examining an ended relationship before throwing yourself into a new one. My sibs & I suffered due to being uprooted so often.

Good luck with this.

 

[kagedgoddess]

hey i have a kid from my first marriage. and i am now remarried. dh and i have been togeather 6 yrs now. we knew each other for 1yr before getting married, but we were only togeather 6mos beforehand, three of which he spent in boot camp . we knew, sometimes you just do. Good luck. ignore the out-laws . the biggest thing is though to make sure your ex isnt cut out of his kids lives, no matter how much you may hate it... unless of coarse he wants to be... anyways, good luck. just offering ya some support since others seem to think its so wrong. oh yeah dh#1 and i were togeather 3yrs before we were married. we spent only a little over 1 yr married. so its Obviously Not the time you spend UN married that is the deciding factor. it might be easier on the kids actually since they are so young. dd as 4 when dh and i hooked up. she still claims to not like him

 

[twentynine]

sounds to me like ya'll need to get rid of that my space page. rob auntie of her source of information.

 

[Bettacreek]

Thank you Kaged. As far as posting our lives, I really don't feel that it's dangerous or "immature" to state that you love your family... Anyways, thankfully, the ex-MIL and the ex-SIL are both on my side as far as custody goes...