Ex-husbands, mind frames, feelings, and maturing...

[WriterofWords]

I am working hard on the let it go,,, I really am!

 

[Mandalina]

 

[redhen]

Good for you WoW... Dosent it feel good to be free of those hurtful feelings?

 

[WriterofWords]

Even as much I as I badly need the money he owes me,, I feel SO much better without the stress and strain of hard feelings and hurt.

 

[WriterofWords]

Sad update,, his puppy didn't make it.

 

[Opa]

I haven't been married to the mother of my sons for thirty four years, but because of the those sons I still occasionally must have cpntact with her. She still after over three decades is able to say just the right thing to make my blood boil; however, I have learn to accept that as who she is and ignore it while quietly given thanks that we are no longer married. Last year when my oldest son wanted to buy her a chicken coop I volunteered to build her a much better on and even supplied the birds. You will eventually learn how to deal with an ex and keep your sanity.

 

[WriterofWords]

When he showed up again tonight and asked if he could bury the pup on my land I told him yes, out in the back area under a mesquite bush. He won't contaminate my dog's areas, and since he lives in the city in a small trailer park he couldn't bury it there. In the past he would have wrapped in plastic and tossed it in a trashcan,, he's growing. His health is horrible, I feel bad for him, pity even, his health is shot and he's only going to be 46 June 9th. It took him too long to find a heart,, I wish him well, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.

 

[Slinkytoys]

You are a good person. Just be careful, he may see your forgiveness as a sign of weakness and try to take advantage of your maturity. Sigh...........been there, done that.
Slinky

 

[CoyoteMagic]

 

[WriterofWords]

Thank you for your concern, he knows he'll never take advantage of me again. I pity him right now, what goes around comes around and evidently he's getting it back in spades.