I must say that although I am probably significantly younger than many of you, I have found a prince who was thankfully let go of by his wicked ex-wife. I’ve had to deal with that wench for 8 years so far and can’t believe the things that she does! Woah! Their poor 14yo son…
But, to get back to (Ahem) topic… My dear hubby is the most amazing, thoughtful, easy going, caring, well intentioned, forgiving, trustworthy, hard-working, helpful, creative, fun loving, supportive, adventurous person I have ever met. He’s the kind of guy that actually takes the time to listen, cares, and understands – that others go to to have a listening ear and support when they need it. Not only that, he’s good looking to boot! AND he puts up with ME!
I would say that as few frogs as I have kissed (My first kiss was when I was 16 and it was – sloppy and wet), I’m glad I waited until I was 30 and found this real treasure.
And, maybe I do have to thank his ex-wife a little – she “put him back on the market”, and now that he found someone worthwhile, he’s willing to do what it takes to keep it going, and he does well! I believe we’ve only had one real argument in our time together, and that was completely understood as both of us had way too much on our plates and needed an outlet – not blame on either of us! You know, you are never upset for the reasons you think you are… And the straw that broke the camel’s back… all that stuff
I must say that we have gone through more than most in those 8 years (lost a child, lost parents/grandparents, lost jobs, moving, travel, 4 kids, an ex-wife who is relentless, step son with developmental disabilities…
Anyway, I just thought I’d pipe up to say that there ARE some princes out there, but mine is NOT available!!!
But, to get back to (Ahem) topic… My dear hubby is the most amazing, thoughtful, easy going, caring, well intentioned, forgiving, trustworthy, hard-working, helpful, creative, fun loving, supportive, adventurous person I have ever met. He’s the kind of guy that actually takes the time to listen, cares, and understands – that others go to to have a listening ear and support when they need it. Not only that, he’s good looking to boot! AND he puts up with ME!
I would say that as few frogs as I have kissed (My first kiss was when I was 16 and it was – sloppy and wet), I’m glad I waited until I was 30 and found this real treasure.
And, maybe I do have to thank his ex-wife a little – she “put him back on the market”, and now that he found someone worthwhile, he’s willing to do what it takes to keep it going, and he does well! I believe we’ve only had one real argument in our time together, and that was completely understood as both of us had way too much on our plates and needed an outlet – not blame on either of us! You know, you are never upset for the reasons you think you are… And the straw that broke the camel’s back… all that stuff
I must say that we have gone through more than most in those 8 years (lost a child, lost parents/grandparents, lost jobs, moving, travel, 4 kids, an ex-wife who is relentless, step son with developmental disabilities…
Anyway, I just thought I’d pipe up to say that there ARE some princes out there, but mine is NOT available!!!
That was not quite the direction I would expect this topic to take! Personally my first real kiss (not a peck, or even a peck on the lips but a REAL kiss!) was an older man, older to the point that he could have gotten in quite a bit of trouble considering I was 15! It reminded me quite a bit of that police song for a short while... Don't Stand So Close To Me! It's really not his fault, I was truly intent! Luckily for us both we were quite aware of precisely what our short fling was and how deep it didn't go, though we were (and are still!) good friends. Honestly it could have been a total mess but I think had it been any other people it would never have happened in the first place because we both knew eachother so well and if we were in that situation with someone else we would have said no (And before and after I did, many a times. I looked a lot older than I was being 5'8" at 13 and older men were always trying to hit on me!). He gave me mono, though, and I didn't even know it. I got what I thought was a bad flu that winter with a fairly high fever and was bedridden for 2-3 days... Mom dosed me up with some goldenseal root tea and I was better in record time! Next thing I knew a few years later I gave Mono to my current and forever partner and it was pretty severe, he was out of commission for over a month... And for a day or so after diagnosis it was a mystery as to where it came from until I suddenly realized that it wasn't a flu at all! The symptoms and duration were so brief for me I missed it entirely!
