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Girls...I have a tender heart too. It really has nothing to do with a tender heart or not having a tender heart. My hands have nursed more people and even animals with extreme tenderness for many, many years now. I'm a good nurse and I couldn't be that way without having a tender heart and compassion towards others. Having a tender heart doesn't mean you cannot kill an animal for food, it has more to do with the mind than the heart. I'm practical and I've got a full measure of common sense that bolsters my fortitude and keeps me from imagining things that simply are not there...like animal's feelings and personalities that are not like our own.
It is because of my tender heart that I kill my own birds instead of eating chickens that were raised in horrible conditions and sent to be killed, packed like sardines in a truck going 70 mph down the highway, their feathers flying off them as they go. Handled roughly and thrown, sometimes kicked as they are jammed into crates, jerked roughly about and hung by their feet to have their heads cut off...some don't hit the machine properly and so they are dunked into the boiling water alive, there to die horribly.
I've been listening for years on these forums as people tell me they just have too tender of a heart to kill their own and that always puzzles me. Do they think I am some hard-hearted, blood thirsty woman out here in the woods with a cleaver? I'm not. I cry at just about every movie I've ever watched..even those starring robots, for pete's sake. I cry over reading a book, I even boo-hoo watching a commercial! I cry when I sing to the Lord. I don't know of anyone with a bigger, more mushy heart than mine..truly. All my patients can tell you how tenderly I care for their bodies, their wounds and their minds.
It has nothing to do with how gentle and tender one's heart is. It has to do with how strong one's mind is when it comes to reasoning out which is more cruel...eating meats from the store or eating meats raised by someone with a tender heart?
