i'm very sorry but all you seem to be saying is discouraging things, and how does "thankyou, anyone else" suggest that the information has not been helpful, i said thankyou. i am just asking for a wide range of opinions.
and hey, i haven't done this before, candling is exciting for me so plese don't ruin the experience for me. i am just doing something logical!
yes you were helpful with the website hinkjc, and i thankyou for that