Lotsapaints I had to giggle when you were describing your turkeys. Mine were so opposite when they were young. They let the chicks they brooded with boss them around all the time. I kept thinking, silly turkeys, you are bigger than those chicks, don't let them push you around. The chickens did it for months and then at about five or six months old it dawned on the turkeys that they didn't have to put up with it any more. A few pecks on the heads of pestering chickens and all is well.
I really like the turkeys too. Mine are so calm and I can't wait to add to the numbers. Mrs. Fluffy Puffy, if your chicken coop is big enough and you don't have blackhead in your area, you can keep the turkeys with your chickens. No special housing needed. Mine live with my chickens just fine.