Fuzzy's Farm

[fuzzybutt love]

Idk then. If going forwards most of the time, then you are probably right about the feathers............idk. Never heard of it, but if he's having balance issues when backing up? who knows. Time will tell, i'm sure. If nothing else he should be a really good bird friend for the boys. I'm sure he will adore the attention.

 

[NovaAman]

This may sound cruel... Or cold hearted, but I am not very tore up over this. I am bummed, absolutely. Sucks, yes. Feel sorrow yes. Overwhelming grief, no. His wife has my utmost sympathy. His children do not. They weren't around, they didn't come when he went to hospice. I am not tore up because we knew this was coming. I talked to my uncle in his last moments of clarity before going back to hospice last week, and I told him I loved him, and he'd be missed, but I hoped it'd be quick and he wouldn't linger any longer than he needed. He said thank you, he loved me too, and that he hoped it'd hurry up too. The next day my sister called him, and he thought it was janurary 2004 and he thought he was talking to me. I am happy it is over.

 

[fuzzybutt love]

Since it's on the holidays, could you plan extra time with your relatives, Silver?

 

[fuzzybutt love]

Oh, lingered................ well, it was what he wanted, then. At least you got to say goodbye.

 

[BackyardFarmMom]

That is good Silver!!!!
Yay!! For the monster!!!!!

Have you seen GSon in a while? How are they getting along?

 

[NovaAman]

everyone who is having it rough again just for good measure..... and im thinking i might get some GFSE ...

Well DH leaves tommorow to head to texas for the trucking comapny's refresher course then training .... im gonna go nuts being here alone but i will live... if kids were not so much trouble for mom and dad id go thru school and training with him lol ... ill prob be on here a lot more and a lot later once he is gone..past few days have been a flurry of getting stuff together ....

We might not be next door, but we are here for ya anyway!

 

[NovaAman]

Oh, lingered................ well, it was what he wanted, then. At least you got to say goodbye.

He didn't like that he was losing his mind, that he was wasting away, that he was in constant pain, that he was cathetered and that he was spending 4 hours every other day hooked up to dialysis, knowing he was in the final stages and there was nothing that could be done except prolong and draw out the inevitable end... Lingering...

 

[BackyardFarmMom]

Nova
I am glad you got to say good bye. It sounds like he knew it was coming and he was ready... made peace with it.
He is no longer suffering.

I felt the same way when my GGma passed. It was time. She was no longer happy here and the stroke took everything away from her.
She was loved and is missed, but it seems that I have missed her since the stroke... not death

 

[Chickenfan4life]

Ok my friends... I am going to hit the sack. I am feeling tired. My feet are tired. I am going to get up early and clean the coops out. I got a fresh bag of pine to put in them... Thinking I might get the heat lamps anchored over the waterers as well to keep them thawed.

And on a crap bad note, my uncle passed away about 9 pm. He was the last sibling still living on my dads side. He was the oldest brother, and he out lived his 3 brothers and his sister... Kidney and liver failure, and his age made him a non candidate for transplant. What was his age? 65... Thank you Obamacare.

I am so sorry for your loss. I know what it feels like to lose a family member.

(Just wondering here, what did you mean by "Thank you, Obamacare? Were you serious? Just wondering...).

 

[NovaAman]

I was being facetious.