I was on the fence about getting a rooster at all but ended up getting a maran cockerel, he's about 5 months. I have a 4 yo son.
I was attacked by a rooster as a teenager so I know the seriousness of a rooster attack. My little guy now is terrified of all of us, and I like to keep it that way. He crowed when my older son was in the coop, so I took a stick and chased him out, and didn't let him back in for 15 min or so. I have no qualms about putting him in the pot if he tries any funny business, but right now he keeps his distance from everyone. I read that friendly roosters are actually more likely to attack so I'm cool with being the big bad mama.
Might end up butchering him anyway because I didn't want feather feet in my mix.