If your hubby can, barred rock cockerels are fairly good size by 16 weeks and not yet getting aggressive usually. You could make the decision then but I would suggest not naming them... They're more friendly than the pullets while they're young, it can be hard to stay detached. I feel that if they had a wonderful life with me before I eat them, then I did them justice and their life had purpose
I agree with that, though I don't eat chickens at all. And if I were to eat chicken, it would be one of my own not a factory chicken because they practically torture them for every day of their lives in factories and my chickens are the happiest things.