it has always been my philosophy that everyone gets to be who they are...everyone is not going to like me and I am not going to like everyone but, everyone gets to be who they are...life is so much calmer inside and out when we are not out to convert everyone and make them just like us...if someone trys to push me, I will peck them like a mad hen, but if I am accepted/respected as I am, we can be the best of friends...if that does not work for someone, he or she, is welcome to go home...I'm just sayin'...