I know the feling Kate as I havent posted on some in a while....I hate the idea that only 1 way works and not the other...unless I think its feesible I wont be answering any questions either as sometmes it just causes me to keep my mouth shut...If you need me pm me also as Kate and I usually agree or you can find me at www.goattalk.com nice place and ther isnt any gripping...and its like a family there too...I have made lots of friends there like Kate and GoatTalker...even Thunderhill to mention some...Yep Kates got her hands full now with her girls ...Good luck Kate we are here for you...