First of all, You have a vision, and that's what you want. So that's what you should have.
Second of all, there's nothing you can't learn from YouTube. Trust me. My ex messed up my snow blower, the only thing I knew about it was that it was red
But I went to YouTube and typed in how to change a belt on a snow blower and a bunch of videos came up. I picked one that showed me how to change the oil, the spark plug and the belt. The guy gave a great audio explanation with the video showing where are the parts were an how to get them out. I watched it, went and got the new belt, called my best BYC friend and asked him how to make sure I got the right size belt (since the ex threw the old one away without getting the correct new one
) then I watched the video again, ran out and put the new belt on, It was all said and done in 8.5 minutes. 2 years later, it still runs perfectly.
I also used YouTube to learn how to get my daughter's hair perfect for cheer competition, and many other things. The point is, we are all smart, we just have different basic knowledge. As long as you have Internet Access there isn't anything you can't do.
Now find a way to send dad home and then start planning your renovations.
Message me if you need any help. I'm getting pretty good at the fabrication part of coop design